THROWBACK THURSDAY: No More "Out-Of-Sight-Out-Of-Mind" Consignments | Ending The Cycles Of Breaking Our Own Hearts

This piece was originally written and published on July 31, 2024. I have updated it slightly to bring it more pertinently into the the now. However, the baseline energies remain the same.
Today's energy so far has felt constrained in the audacity of the old timelines...and their determination to stay relevant. And this is because Leo season is about heart attunement, with the first decan being the energy of the Five of Wands - the shaking up of certain conflicts for deeper heart purification.
I hope your day is going well, and that you're moving through any intensity with grace, compassion, and loyalty to your truth.
Have a lovely Thursday.
Solarah 💙
The day has barely begun and yet you may be facing challenges in your heart space already. As the Sun continues its travels through Leo, it pulls the wool off our eyes to begin to see more clearly the ways our hearts have been broken, and how we’ve contributed in keeping heartbreak cycles alive.
Innerstand and overstand that heartbreak cycles don’t always have to do with romance or another person. We break our own hearts every time we settle for what it is that is not in true alignment with what we want.
We break our own hearts when we follow someone else’s formula for “happiness,” or succumb to someone else’s design for our lives. We break our own hearts in these instances because we open doors to call in suffering and karmic struggles, so that our eyes are opened to what we are essentially doing to ourselves, or blindly consenting to from another or others.
Right now, we are being helped to see where there are areas, people, behaviours, and patterns that we have submitted our will to, which essentially cause us heartbreak. These are those seemingly small, nitpicky issues that we most of the time prefer to push down and believe that they will disappear without our proper attendance. Out-of-sight-out-of-mind consignments.
However, what we allow to fester in the darkness of our ignorance, repression, and denial, only grows more wildly, and then begins to unconsciously take over our realities in covert but insidious ways. In these instances, we see the dysfunction and feel the discord, but are unable to locate the root of the issue because we have consented to being gaslit time and time again - often by choosing (of our own volition) to look away.
The energies of now are heating up for all of us. No longer will we be able to ignore that which is causing abject pain and unnecessary destruction and dysfunction - not in ourselves, and not in the world at large.
The wool is being torn from our eyes, and the present transits and solar weather are ensuring that the many ways we’ve been taught to use our own minds against our hearts can at last be seen for what it is. The old mind control agendas of the false matrix cannot stand up against truth and deep revelatory energies that each pelting from the Sun brings in its season.
If you are feeling uncomfortable and challenged, this is a good place to be. It means that something is wanting to crack you open wider for your own liberation….for as long as you choose to open your heart and mind to the challenge, instead of reverting to old habits of sweeping things under the rug.
We can hide but so much under that proverbial rug before it starts to resemble an anaconda digesting a huge meal. The crap we store under there grows and grows until we are tripping up all over ourselves, and are forced to begin the process of facing all that we have stockpiled and hidden.
Right now, we are being given the opportunity to deal with this so that we can remove the obstructions in our own heart spaces that have blocked us from living in harmonious states with self and one another. Right now, we are receiving lessons in what the true foundations of legacy should look like and entail.
What are we truly working towards and leaving behind on this planet in our wake? Are we simply here to work until we die to pass that blood money onto the next generation….so that they can continue in the same cycles that wore us out and stole our life force too?
This is not true legacy, and it is not what we came here to plant.
We came here to experience our essence in corporeal form so that we can materialise love here on Earth. We are love, and we come from love, and we wanted so badly to know what it would feel like to become love in the flesh, that we chose to incarnate here for that experience.
How much of what we do is actually driven by this truth? How much do we have to show for that original vision which called our souls to this place?
How much of what we have done has been fuelled by the survivalist, fear mongering exploits of the false matrix, which have us constantly in avoidance of ourselves and our true missions? How much have we submitted to being programmed into becoming fear based beings, instead of living in the truth of our wholeness as love based entities?
Today may be a day where we feel the sting of this all the more, so that we dig deep and rise out of making decisions that dishonour our hearts and our devine truth. As the moon waxes into Her fullness, old debris is coming up to be swept away in preparation for new heart aligned stories.
Use this time to address the behaviours, mindsets, habits, and beings that contribute to your heartbreak cycles, and that you have allowed to do so, out of a misplaced sense of duty or responsibility.
It is time for everyone to take responsibility for their own hearts, paths, and creative abilities. It is nothing we can do for another, and when we try, we are actually pulling ourselves and them out of proper alignment.
So, focus now on what aligns you with your truth, and trust that as you honour yourself, the proper doors and windows will open to bring those you love into rightful alignment too.
Living your truth boldly is one of the best ways to inspire others to do the same as well. Only love can set our souls free and put us back on track. So be the love you desire to see others rise into.
Wishing you a truly heart-aligned day!
Solarah ✨
Thanks so much for all your love and support! I appreciate you 💙

Join me this Sunday August 3rd for my online Birthday bash! I am making a concerted effort to start new traditions with people who love, support, appreciate and want to celebrate me genuinely.
Solarah’s Online B-Day Party
Sunday 3 Aug · 11am EST/4pm UK
Google Meet joining info
Video call link: https://meet.google.com/fxx-ingb-brq
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As such, I am choosing to spend my time with those who I’m moving into New Earth timelines with. I would be so honoured if you would drop by and say hi - no pressure though…only if you want to.
We will just be hanging out and chatting together…party hats and accoutrements are welcome but totally optional 🎂☺️
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I look forward to seeing you on Sunday!
Much love,
Solarah 💙✨